You Think Being a People Pleaser Makes You Weak

That thing you hate about yourself? It's going to make people love your content.

All those years you said "yes" to everything. All those times you tried so hard to make everyone happy. You think that makes you weak.

But here's the truth: It makes you perfect for this.

Why Your Weakness is Gold

I used to be the biggest people pleaser ever.

As a kid, I just wanted my dad to be proud of me. I kept the peace at home. I never said no at work.

I thought if I didn't say yes to everything, people wouldn't like me. I thought I had to earn my place.

But you know what? All that people pleasing taught me something huge. It taught me to really care about others. It taught me to listen. And when you help people, it actually makes you feel good too.

That's why I started sharing what I know online.

Because of this, lots of you found jobs. Some of you found peace. Others finally found someone who gets you.

Here's what changed: I don't help people for their approval anymore. I do it because it's just who I am now. That's when everything clicked.

Why Am I Telling You This?

Because I know there are people like me out there feeling exactly the same way.

You're sitting there thinking you're broken. Thinking your need to get rid of that “negative” thing that makes you weak. Thinking you can't help anyone because you can't even help yourself.

I've been there. I lived there for years.

And I want to help you get through this the same way I did, by sharing the messy truth about what really works.

Here's how I do it, broken down into 3 simple ways:

1. Tell Your Story Not the pretty version. The messy truth. The times you messed up teach people more than your wins ever will. When you share the real stuff, you give others permission to be real too.

2. Share What You Know Stop keeping all your knowledge to yourself. The more you give away, the more people want from you. That thing you learned the hard way? Someone else is going through it right now. Help them skip the pain.

3. Talk to People Like People Answer comments like you're talking to your friend. Ask real questions. Remember there's an actual person behind every username.

Stop Waiting. Just Start.

You've been thinking about this forever.

That voice in your head saying you're not ready? It's the same voice that made you say yes to everything for years. It wants to protect you from getting hurt, but it's also stopping you from helping people.

The world has enough perfect people posting perfect stuff. What it needs is you, messy past and all.

Stop asking for permission. Stop making the perfect post. Stop thinking your problems make you less qualified.

Just start posting. Today.

Right now, someone is scrolling through their phone looking for someone real. Someone who gets it. Someone like you.

Go be that person.

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Redona
Founder of Simplify Your Message